The Best Way to French Kiss

Learning how to French kiss your partner is one of those intimate things that you absolutely must learn if you want to keep things hot and f...

Learning how to French kiss your partner is one of those intimate things that you absolutely must learn if you want to keep things hot and fun. 

Explore with your tongue. If the other person seems interested, go ahead and start French kissing for real. Remember to keep your tongue in motion and your touches light. First, just slowly slide your tongue into your partner's mouth.

First things first: Before you even begin to think about kissing your partner, make sure that you have enticing, kissable lips. This is the least sexy kissing tip you'll read today, but it's one of the most important. If you have chapped, dry lips, make sure to regularly moisturize them to keep them soft and kissable. (If you have cold sores, avoid kissing because you'll spread the virus!) 

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4 Step to learn how to french kiss

Relax - You lips should be relaxed, your body should be relaxed. Otherwise it will be like kissing a dead fish for the other person. There are only two things involved in a French kiss: your lips and your tongue. That's it!

Open Lips - Your lips should be slightly parted, not open wide like you're at the dentist. Open them just far enough, just like you are regularly breathing through your mouth.

Positioning - Do not have your face dead on to his/hers. Otherwise, your noses will touch. You want to move your head to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of theirs. If you think about it then, with your head tilted one way and his the other way, your mouths will not reach dead on. Your lips will meet at the corner of the other's mouth.

If you look closely at the picture, you will see that their noses will actually touch the cheek of the other person. Their lips have already touched. When you feel the other person's lips, and you stretch your tongue out a bit, your mouths will instinctively open as much as the couple in the picture.

Tongue - Practice on your own if you'd like. Open your mouth enough (while you're by yourself of course!) just sufficient to stick a bit of your tongue out. It will go past your teeth. Don't stick your entire tongue out... just an inch or two. That is how far you should stick your tongue out in a kiss. So your tongue will go into their mouth and theirs will go into yours. When this happens, both of your tongues will touch. Then just circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of theirs. If they do something different (because you have to remember that everyone kisses differently so some may move their tongue around a bit differently) then just do the same as they do. 

They may flick their tongue over yours and you can do the same. Or they explore the inside of your mouth with their tongue, do the same thing! Or you can just lightly touch their tongue while they are exploring. The best thing is to NOT just leave your tongue doing nothing. You are reading How to French Kiss on Us-Ask Blog! The ultimate tutorial on how to make out or how to french kiss. 
Getting started with French kiss

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You've seen it done in the movies and probably even in public — the French kiss, a timeless and passionate gesture of romantic affection where partners kiss while using their tongues. Whether you live in Paris, France or Paris, Texas, you can learn how to kiss like the French do without an embarrassing faux pas! If you want to know how to French kiss, see Step 1 to get started.

Keep your lips soft. A soft, smooth, and slightly moist mouth are ideal for kissing. Before you move in, you should make sure your lips aren't chapped or dry so your partner isn't distracted or put off by the state of your lips. If you want to soften your lips before you go in for the kiss, you should try these quick fixes: 

Use chapstick. Swipe some over your lips and press them together. (If you're a girl and you have flavored chapstick, all the better!) The only caveat is that you should apply lip balm or gloss an hour or more before you kiss, so your kissing partner feels your soft lips, not the thick layer of gloss over them.
Drink water. Dry lips are a sign of dehydration, so throw back a tall glass of water (or two). You should notice your lips starting to smooth out within 20 to 30 minutes.

Lick your lips. If you're really in a pinch and have no time to spare, quickly run your tongue over your lips and press them together. This should moisten them slightly without making them slobbery or slick. You can even lick your lips a bit subtle while making eye contact with your kissing partner.
How to French Kiss 

As for the movement of the head, that is entirely up to you. Some people will move their heads very slightly in a small circular motion or figure eight. Sometimes they won't. Sometimes just one person moves their head, and the other doesn't. It's totally up to you.


While French kissing your partner, you can do some things:


  • Make a slow, circling motion around his tongue with yours.
  • Slowly and gently press against his tongue with yours.
  • Softly use your tongue to lick and tease his lips.
  • Alternate between all three of these techniques to add some variation to your French kissing repertoire.
  • How to stop kissing
  • When you want to stop French kissing your partner, the easiest thing to do is just pull away from them and stop, but that can be a little abrupt. You may find it nicer to stop using your tongue and go back to the start by squeezing his upper or lower lip between yours before you pull away.

Don't forget about these two things! One thing you should never forget about when French kissing someone is your hands. Sure, you can just wrap them around your partner and leave them there, but there are tons of other, really great things you can do with them, too.


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The easiest thing to do is to run them up and down his body. But don't stop there. You can also run them through his hair. The back of the scalp is one of the most sensitive and erogenous zones on the body, so make sure to use your nails and fingers to scratch it gently. Lastly, a sexy and dominant way to French kiss someone is to put a hand on his cheek and change which side you are kissing them on.

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The final thing that you should never forget is that slower is far sexier, hotter and more sensual than faster 'washing machine' French kissing.

You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.

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